Alchemy House

Philippe & Exquisite Love Events

Drake's Dealership

The Kinky Dating Mixers events are designed as inclusive, community-focused gatherings for people within the kink community who want to connect in a more intentional and authentic way. All of our events are for folks aged 18+

Kinky Dating Mixers

The Kink Store SF

SF Shibari Studio

A private rope photography studio in the Mission, SF. Run by Fritz (JuteJitsu)

SFShibari Studio

Oakland cozy big venue, 94609

Embodied Co-Loving is a global community for conscious entrepreneurs, creators, nomads to deepen awakening, transformations &amp; presence, connect from the heart as our authentic SELF, live, play &amp; create together in Love, Joy, Freedom &amp; Purpose 😊🧡 

Embodied Co-Loving

Stopgap

AfterDark Events is a POC, queer, neurodivergent, and disabled led group that organizes exciting, curated, events for the San Francisco Bay Area kink community. Follow or friend us to keep up with our events!

AfterDark Events

The Kink Store

The Kink Store SF | 224 6th St. SF, CA
A 4,500 sq. ft. creative dungeon venue available for hourly rentals, private events, and workshops.

The Penthouse SF | Mission SF, CA
A newly remodeled 10,000 sq. ft. event and playspace. OPENING FOLSOM WEEK 2026!

Hosting a kinky event, workshop, or curious about what’s coming up? Message us at events@kinkstore.com

The Kink Store & The Penthouse SF

Paradox

Stopgap (SoMa)

Stopgap (address provided to ticket holders)

Folsom Street Community Center

Wicked Grounds is a leader in BDSM and kink education in the San Francisco Bay Area and worldwide through our live online classes. We also offer individual coaching and consulting! All events are 18+. 

Featured Events

𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑬𝒎𝒃𝒐𝒅𝒊𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝑺𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒕𝒖𝒂𝒓𝒚 with Alyssa & Samah 🙏 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑬𝒓𝒐𝒕𝒊𝒄 𝑷𝒍𝒂𝒚𝒈𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒅

Oakland Kinky Speed Dating Mixer:Regular Edition

𝑾𝒉𝒐’𝒔 𝒀𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝑫𝒂𝒅𝒅𝒚? 𝑬𝒙𝒑𝒍𝒐𝒓𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝑪𝒂𝒓𝒆𝒈𝒊𝒗𝒆𝒓/𝑳𝒊𝒕𝒕𝒍𝒆 𝒅𝒚𝒏𝒂𝒎𝒊𝒄𝒔 🍂 River & Chuck

Rope Bondage Workshop: Spicy Floorplay🌶️

Rope Bondage Workshop: Suspendible ties with JuteJitsu

Sensual Love 🥰💃🕺🪢🧘❤️‍🔥 playground XXL (200 vetted cuties, everyone welcome)

Night Bazaar - A Special Market & Play Party Event

Black Heart: The Emo Experience

Fast Ties for F*cking! presented by Danarama

𝑶𝒓𝒅𝒆𝒓 𝑺𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝑫𝒊𝒇𝒇𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒕: 𝑨𝒏 𝒆𝒙𝒑𝒍𝒐𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒐𝒇 𝒓𝒆𝒍𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒂𝒍 𝒓𝒂𝒏𝒈𝒆 🍂 Ali Williams

Rope Bondage Workshop: Spicy Floorplay🌶️

Spank Jam (Pre Spanksgiving)

Spanksgiving

A Table for All: Potluck & Community Dinner at Stopgap

Rope Bondage Workshop: Suspendible ties with JuteJitsu

Captivated: A Rope Party!

Netfux and Chill: Cuffing Season at The Kink Store

Rope Bondage Workshop: Spicy Floorplay🌶️

Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab!

Rope Bondage Workshop: Suspendible ties with JuteJitsu