Private Venue

Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach &amp; educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, &amp; founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has pioneer research on the orgasm gap + queer &amp; trans experiences. She has extensive training in Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, Innate Somatic Intelligence Trauma Therapy Approach, &amp; Somatica Method. Dr. Aly designs workshops, courses, &amp; retreats &amp; offers individual, couples &amp; ENM coaching. 

TurnON.love

Zanzi Oakland

Nonmonogameetups is a collection of bay area events which create space for friend-making and mingling for the non-monogamous and the people who love us. Meet some like-minded humans or come nonmonogamy-curious to learn more about our love-infused lives.
Our events will be posted here monthly so join the group to stay in the loop.

This is a safe space for all sexual orientations and kink or gender identities. Please ask for enthusiastic consent before initiating physical contact, like a hug.

Nonmonogameetups (FKA Poly Happy Hour)

Alchemy House (address will be sent on the event chat)

Philippe & Exquisite Love Events (The Somatic Playground / The Journey to Secure / FireLight 🔥 / Love Underground / The Erotic Playground / Club Exotica)

Private venue (address provided with ticket purchase)

Stopgap (address provided to ticket holders)

Stopgap is the newest and oldest kink venue in San Francisco! While a new venue in its current iteration, the building itself has a rich history in the kink community as one of the prior locations of the SF Citadel. The first floor is fully accessible, with social and play spaces - including hardpoints. Descend into the 3100 square foot basement to on equipment that many in the community may have enjoyed in days gone by plus some newer pieces from our collection. There will be crosses, benches, 

Stopgap

Folsom Street Community Center

Wicked Grounds is a leader in BDSM and kink education in the San Francisco Bay Area and worldwide through our live online classes. We also offer individual coaching and consulting! All events are 18+. 

Wicked Grounds

Fable Retreat Center

Little Boxes Theatre

Exquisitely erotic, sensually subversive, and distinctly daring queer performance art

Twisted Windows

Wicked Grounds at Trellis

address will be released to ticket holders

An online community rooted in real-world and virtual events where people can learn together – and from one another – about sexuality, pleasure, and relationships.

Bonobo Network

La Peña Cultural Center

Phoenix Song Music

Forest Love

Play with a Purpose!
Dare. Dance. Thrive!

SoulPlay offers a magic-making playground filled with dynamic, immersive experiences where self-discovery, connection, and transformation are woven into the moment. 

SoulPlay is an invitation to explore your essence.
Welcome to our playground.
We offer workshops that light up your soul, dance parties that move your body, and connections that spark.

SoulPlay

The Stud

Bass n Babes

510 Firehouse

we are a queer art and housing collective operating out of the East Bay

The Spooky Haus

HeartLab

The Davon Method

6262 Highland Ave

The Center SF

PLACE - Community Center, Makerspace & Permaculture Site

Sebastopol

a spiritual kinky dance community for personal &amp; cultural liberation

Embody More Love

Victory Point Cafe

Formerly known as Poly Seeking Anchors. We host socials and matchmaking events for polyamorous and other nonmonogamous folx looking for deep connection and partnership.

Second Glances

The Davon Method Loft Space

Town Bar and Lounge 

Come Home To Your Body
Our mission is: Everyone at home in their body. We do this through somatic healing, movement, dance, and community. One-on-one coaching and workshops to increase your body confidence, decolonize your relationship to your body, and build your skills, strength, flexibility, musicality, and mind-body connection. Events to bring the community together and celebrate who we are.

Click Your Heels

Mission Yoga

Bluemusesoundhealing

Oakland

xtrasexyreality

Verdi Club

STORYTELLING IS ABOUT BUILDING A CONNECTION.
SO IS SEX.

Bawdy features true stories of sex, kink, body image, gender and more to build community, educate, entertain,  and bring people together. We do regular live storytelling events in multiple cities.


Bawdy Storytelling

The Green Yogi TELEGRAPH

The Foundry SF

Ms San Francisco Leather Contest Productions Team

LEATHER HOUSE &amp; EDUCATIONAL ORG. 
with
FREE, ONLINE CLASSES
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                The House of Kush is an international leather organization committed to safe and consensual cannabis consumption and kink practices. Our mission beyond cannakink and kink practices is to advocate for the release of those still incarcerated for cannabis related crimes and suffering the consequences of a legal system woefully behind its recreational 

Featured Events

The ORIGINAL How to Eat Pussy like a Champ

Oakland Non-Monogameetup -- April 2026

Apr 13 🥀 Victoria Angel Heart - Vocal Sex Magic

Navigating Non-Monogamy: Level 1

Helix - An Open Play Event

Getting Started with Rope Intensive with Psychokitty Ryan

Apr 20 🥀 Francesca Gentille - Devotion: Sensual Healing

Mastering Non-Monogamy: Level 2

Sustainable Intimacy: Fuel Passion for Lasting Love couples & polycules retreat

Once Upon a Rope Lab

Apr 27 🥀 Peter Benjamin - Relational Interplay

The Ins and Outs of Play Parties

Welcome to the SF Bay Area Scene

Dating While Kinky with Miriam Green

Bonobo Network Presents Kiss and Tell: A Sexy Second Bass Party

The Embodied Feminine Daylong Intensive

May 4 🥀 Heather Atles - Connection Lab

Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab!

A Thousand Mothers Collecting the Bones

May 11 🥀 Chris Taylor - Spicy Speed Friending

The Watering Hole

Hot Girl Bayss

Art Jam 2025

Tantra Slow Dating -where singles can meet & couples deepen relationship!

Free Your Voice 10-wk Class with Phoenix Song Music

Awakening Sacred Sensuality- Daylong Tantra Workshop for Singles & Couples

QUARTZ: Queer Arts Faire

Love ✨ Making Dances

[CANCELED] Valentine’s Mongamous/ish Match-making at Victory Point Cafe

Falling in Love & Falling Back in Love- a Tantric Approach- SF

Strap

Magic Mycelium - Sound Healing Journey

Self Defense Workshop for Queer/Trans Folk

Bawdy Storytelling's 'Worth It!' (San Francisco, 2/7/25)

Free your voice & body stories 9 month training with Phoenix Song

Ms San Francisco Leather Contest

Ms SF Leather Contest Promotion

Free Your Voice 2 hour workshop