SF Shibari Studio

A private Shibari-exclusive studio in the Mission, SF. Run by Fritz (JuteJitsu)

SFShibari Studio

Stopgap (address provided to ticket holders)

Stopgap is the newest and oldest kink venue in San Francisco! While a new venue in its current iteration, the building itself has a rich history in the kink community as one of the prior locations of the SF Citadel. The first floor is fully accessible, with social and play spaces - including hardpoints. Descend into the 3100 square foot basement to on equipment that many in the community may have enjoyed in days gone by plus some newer pieces from our collection. There will be crosses, benches, 

Stopgap

The Kink Store

The Kink Store SF | 224 6th St. SF, CA
A 4,500 sq. ft. creative dungeon venue available for hourly rentals, private events, and workshops.

The Penthouse SF | Mission SF, CA
A newly remodeled 10,000 sq. ft. event and playspace. OPENING FOLSOM WEEK 2026!

Hosting a kinky event, workshop, or curious about what’s coming up? Message us at events@kinkstore.com

The Kink Store & The Penthouse SF

Private Venue

Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach &amp; educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, &amp; founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has pioneer research on the orgasm gap + queer &amp; trans experiences. She has extensive training in Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, Innate Somatic Intelligence Trauma Therapy Approach, &amp; Somatica Method. Dr. Aly designs workshops, courses, &amp; retreats &amp; offers individual, couples &amp; ENM coaching. 

TurnON.love

The Kink Store SF

Philippe & Exquisite Love Events

Folsom Street Community Center

Wicked Grounds is a leader in BDSM and kink education in the San Francisco Bay Area and worldwide through our live online classes. We also offer individual coaching and consulting! All events are 18+. 

Wicked Grounds

Mukunda Studio

AfterDark Events is a POC, queer, neurodivergent, and disabled led group that organizes exciting, curated, events for the San Francisco Bay Area kink community. Follow or friend us to keep up with our events!

AfterDark Events

Trellis Coworking and Events

Paradox

The Green Yogi MLK

Hi, I'm Andrea 🌺 I am a Pleasure Coach and Sex Educator that blends the spiritual and scientific to help you experience deeper pleasure and sensual connection with self and other.  

In my holistic approach to sexual wellness, I use tools from Tantra, mindfulness, and yoga to help people rethink sex and pleasure and find new ways of relating to their own body and others. I am certified as a practitioner of Urban Tantra, a Certified Sex Educator, and I have a Master’s degree in Gender Studies.

Andrea Bertoli, Pleasure Coach

VoxBody Studio

Exquisitely erotic, sensually subversive, and distinctly daring queer performance art

Twisted Windows

Stopgap (located in SoMa)

The White Horse Bar

Hi! We’re Emma and Fin! We’re a married couple in our thirties who have been exploring non-monogamy for over a decade. Every week we interview people from across the spectrums of gender, sexuality, and relationship styles to hear their amazing stories. We hope that by giving a voice to the diverse community exploring non-monogamy that we can show people they are not alone and inspire them to embrace their true selves so that, together, we can open minds and live authentically without shame.

Featured Events

Rope Bondage Workshop: Spicy Floorplay🌶️

October House Party - on Every First Friday!

Exploring Femme For Everyone + Fetish Mixer & Play presented by Knotasha

LATEX SEX presented by Knotasha

The ORIGINAL How to Eat Pussy like a Champ

Oct 5 🍂 Brazilian Zouk: Embrace in Flow

Rope Bondage Workshop: Spicy Floorplay🌶️

Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab!

Leading & Following: D/s Body Language

CRACKing the Code to WhipCraft: An All-Day Whip Intensive

Oct 12 🍂 Less Technique, More Connection with Rope

Kinky Speed Friending with PsychoKitty

Whip Jam - October

Tantric Date Night (Part 1)

Rope Lab: Halloween Costume Edition

Oct 19 🍂 Deep Eros in the Dance

Flirt & Squirt - Queer Leather Dungeon (October)

Non-Monogamy Speed Friending | October

Power Exchange with Rope with Lee Harrington

Nov 2 🍂 Alchemy of Kink: Using Power Dynamics for Healing & Intimacy