KinkStore

Exquisitely erotic, sensually subversive, and distinctly daring queer performance art

Twisted Windows

Alchemy House (address will be sent on the event chat)

In the Somatic Playground, we cultivate a community of somatic attunement and relational intelligence. Each week, a different facilitator will guide you on a journey of research, play, and practice, honing your abilities to dive into your somatic, emotional, primal, energetic, and relational bodies - learning to listen through touch and taste the pathway of motion. An open jam will follow as a way to continue exploring together sparks and curiosities from class. 

Philippe & Exquisite Love Events (The Somatic Playground / FireLight 🔥 / Love Underground / The Erotic Playground / Club Exotica)

Zanzi Oakland

Nonmonogameetups is a collection of bay area events which create space for friend-making and mingling for the non-monogamous and the people who love us. Meet some like-minded humans or come nonmonogamy-curious to learn more about our love-infused lives.
Our events will be posted here monthly so join the group to stay in the loop.

This is a safe space for all sexual orientations and kink or gender identities. Please ask for enthusiastic consent before initiating physical contact, like a hug.

Nonmonogameetups (FKA Poly Happy Hour)

The Continental Club

The Ruckus Revival is a legendary underground show packed with uncensored acts, from jaw-dropping circus and acrobatics, to hilarious dirty haiku bouts, beat-boxers and audience-interactive mayhem in a fast-paced night of unfiltered entertainment! Winner of multiple "Best of the Bay" awards, and dubbed "consistently the most spectacular event that Oakland's ever seen" by the East Bay Express, Ruckus is the longest running variety show in the Bay Area.

The Ruckus Revival

Verdi Club

STORYTELLING IS ABOUT BUILDING A CONNECTION.
SO IS SEX.

Bawdy features true stories of sex, kink, body image, gender and more to build community, educate, entertain,  and bring people together. We do regular live storytelling events in multiple cities.


Bawdy Storytelling

FSCC

Wicked Grounds is a leader in BDSM and kink education in the San Francisco Bay Area and worldwide through our live online classes. We also offer individual coaching and consulting! All events are 18+. 

Wicked Grounds

Fireside Bar

Trellis Coworking and Events

Address will be released to ticket holders

An online community rooted in real-world and virtual events where people can learn together – and from one another – about sexuality, pleasure, and relationships.

Bonobo Network

East Bay Community Space

200 Channels

Forest Love

Play with a Purpose!
Dare. Dance. Thrive!

SoulPlay offers a magic-making playground filled with dynamic, immersive experiences where self-discovery, connection, &amp; transformation are woven into every moment. 

When we engage in play, we allow ourselves to step out of overthinking and into a state of flow. Experiment with complex ideas in a low stakes environment with the community support and encouragement you need to make it possible.

SoulPlay

The Stud

Bass n Babes

510 Firehouse

we are a queer art and housing collective operating out of the East Bay

The Spooky Haus

HeartLab

The Davon Method

6262 Highland Ave

Phoenix Song Music

The Center SF

PLACE - Community Center, Makerspace & Permaculture Site

Sebastopol

a spiritual kinky dance community for personal &amp; cultural liberation

Embody More Love

Victory Point Cafe

Formerly known as Poly Seeking Anchors. We host socials and matchmaking events for polyamorous and other nonmonogamous folx looking for deep connection and partnership.

Second Glances

The Davon Method Loft Space

Town Bar and Lounge 

Come Home To Your Body
Our mission is: Everyone at home in their body. We do this through somatic healing, movement, dance, and community. One-on-one coaching and workshops to increase your body confidence, decolonize your relationship to your body, and build your skills, strength, flexibility, musicality, and mind-body connection. Events to bring the community together and celebrate who we are.

Click Your Heels

Mission Yoga

Bluemusesoundhealing

Oakland

xtrasexyreality

The Green Yogi TELEGRAPH

The Foundry SF

Ms San Francisco Leather Contest Productions Team

LEATHER HOUSE &amp; EDUCATIONAL ORG. 
with
FREE, ONLINE CLASSES
DONATE:https://cash.app/$HOKHouseofKush
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                The House of Kush is an international leather organization committed to safe and consensual cannabis consumption and kink practices. Our mission beyond cannakink and kink practices is to advocate for the release of those still incarcerated for cannabis related crimes and suffering the consequences of a legal system woefully behind its recreational 

Featured Events

Thirst

Nov 10 🌟 Malkaprem - Heart Connection & Soundgasm

Oakland Non-Monogameetup -- November

Movie Madness!

Bawdy's Spank Bank!

Nov 17 🌟 Joshua Hathaway - Ecstatic Playground: ReMembering our Innocence

SF: Getting Started with Rope Primer with Psychokitty Ryan

Sunset Poly Happy Hour

SF: Kinky Speed Friending with PsychoKitty

Bonobo Network Presents Kiss and Tell: A Sexy Second Bass Party

Nov 24 🌟 Claire Rumore - The Power of Slow, Attuned Intimacy: An Intro to Subtle Sexuality

Dec 1 🌟 Maha & Brigitte - AC⚡️DC Authentic Connection through Dance and Chakras

SF: Welcome to the SF Bay Area Scene with Miriam Green

SF: Electro Play from the Bottom with Pangressive

OAK: Stripping 101 and Stripping for the Spotlight (by Click Your Heels)

Dec 8 🌟 Hema Ganapathy - Slow the F@#$ Down

Dec 15 🌟 Willow Faith - Play With Me Workshop!

SF Poly Happy Hour -- December

SF: Kinky Speed Friending with PsychoKitty

Dec 22 🌟 Adam Chacksfield - Erotic Shadow Play

The Watering Hole

Hot Girl Bayss

Art Jam 2025

Tantra Slow Dating -where singles can meet & couples deepen relationship!

Free Your Voice 10-wk Class with Phoenix Song Music

Awakening Sacred Sensuality- Daylong Tantra Workshop for Singles & Couples

QUARTZ: Queer Arts Faire

Love ✨ Making Dances

[CANCELED] Valentine’s Mongamous/ish Match-making at Victory Point Cafe

Falling in Love & Falling Back in Love- a Tantric Approach- SF

Strap

Magic Mycelium - Sound Healing Journey

Self Defense Workshop for Queer/Trans Folk

Bawdy Storytelling's 'Worth It!' (San Francisco, 2/7/25)

Free your voice & body stories 9 month training with Phoenix Song

Ms San Francisco Leather Contest

Ms SF Leather Contest Promotion

Free Your Voice 2 hour workshop