FSCC

Wicked Grounds is a leader in BDSM and kink education in the San Francisco Bay Area and worldwide through our live online classes.

We also offer a curated selection of BDSM non-fiction and handcrafted gear. 

All events are 18+. 

Wicked Grounds

Trellis Coworking and Events

Private venue

Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach &amp; educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, &amp; founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has pioneer research on the orgasm gap + queer &amp; trans experiences. She has extensive training in Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, Innate Somatic Intelligence Trauma Therapy Approach, &amp; Somatica Method. Dr. Aly designs workshops, courses, &amp; retreats &amp; offers individual, couples &amp; ENM coaching. 

TurnON.love

Quinn's Lighthouse

East Bay Community Space

Zanzi Oakland

Nonmonogameetups is a collection of bay area events which create space for friend-making and mingling for the non-monogamous and the people who love us. Meet some like-minded humans or come nonmonogamy-curious to learn more about our love-infused lives.
Our events will be posted here monthly so join the group to stay in the loop.

This is a safe space for all sexual orientations and kink or gender identities. Please ask for enthusiastic consent before initiating physical contact, like a hug.

Nonmonogameetups (FKA Poly Happy Hour)

Root'd In The 510 Equity Weed Dispensary

Verdi Club

STORYTELLING IS ABOUT BUILDING A CONNECTION.
SO IS SEX.

Bawdy features true stories of sex, kink, body image, gender and more to build community, educate, entertain,  and bring people together. We do regular live storytelling events in multiple cities.


Bawdy Storytelling

Wicked Grounds Annex

Private Venue

address will be released to ticket holders

An online community rooted in real-world and virtual events where people can learn together – and from one another – about sexuality, pleasure, and relationships.

Bonobo Network

200 Channels

Address will be released to ticket holders

The White Horse Bar

Hi! We’re Emma and Fin! We’re a married couple in our thirties who have been exploring non-monogamy for over a decade. Every week we interview people from across the spectrums of gender, sexuality, and relationship styles to hear their amazing stories. We hope that by giving a voice to the diverse community exploring non-monogamy that we can show people they are not alone and inspire them to embrace their true selves so that, together, we can open minds and live authentically without shame.

Normalizing Non-Monogamy

Forest Love

Play with a Purpose!
Dare. Dance. Thrive!

SoulPlay offers a magic-making playground filled with dynamic, immersive experiences where self-discovery, connection, &amp; transformation are woven into every moment. 

When we engage in play, we allow ourselves to step out of overthinking and into a state of flow. Experiment with complex ideas in a low stakes environment with the community support and encouragement you need to make it possible.

SoulPlay

The Stud

Bass n Babes

510 Firehouse

we are a queer art and housing collective operating out of the East Bay

The Spooky Haus

HeartLab

The Davon Method

6262 Highland Ave

Phoenix Song Music

The Center SF

PLACE - Community Center, Makerspace & Permaculture Site

Sebastopol

a spiritual kinky dance community for personal &amp; cultural liberation

Embody More Love

Victory Point Cafe

Formerly known as Poly Seeking Anchors. We host socials and matchmaking events for polyamorous and other nonmonogamous folx looking for deep connection and partnership.

Second Glances

The Davon Method Loft Space

Town Bar and Lounge 

Come Home To Your Body
Our mission is: Everyone at home in their body. We do this through somatic healing, movement, dance, and community. One-on-one coaching and workshops to increase your body confidence, decolonize your relationship to your body, and build your skills, strength, flexibility, musicality, and mind-body connection. Events to bring the community together and celebrate who we are.

Click Your Heels

Mission Yoga

Bluemusesoundhealing

Oakland

xtrasexyreality

The Green Yogi TELEGRAPH

The Foundry SF

Ms San Francisco Leather Contest Productions Team

LEATHER HOUSE &amp; EDUCATIONAL ORG. 
with
FREE, ONLINE CLASSES
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                The House of Kush is an international leather organization committed to safe and consensual cannabis consumption and kink practices. Our mission beyond cannakink and kink practices is to advocate for the release of those still incarcerated for cannabis related crimes and suffering the consequences of a legal system woefully behind its recreational 

Featured Events

SF: Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab!

SF: Kinky Speed Friending with PsychoKitty

The Secrets of Passion, Romance, and Dominance

SF: Increasing Your Impact! A Daylong Impact Play Intensive

The Chemistry Collective: A poly/ENM Dance Party

OAK: Erotic Movement Daylong Intensive (by Click Your Heels)

Oakland Non-Monogameetup -- July

Poly.Pot.Party. - July

Bawdy Storytelling's 'Trippin': Tales of Sunshine and WanderLust' (SF)

ONLINE: Put a Sigil on It!

Neurodivergent Love: Enhancing Emotional Intimacy

Bonobo Network presents: VIBE: Daybreak - A Summer Juke (BIPOC ONLY)

Neurodivergent Sexuality: Enhancing Pleasure

SF Poly Happy Hour -- July

SF: Fetish Games with Psychokitty

SAVE THE DATE: Bonobo Network Presents Kiss and Tell: A Sexy Second Bass Party

SF: Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab!

Non-Monogamy Speed Friending | September

SAVE THE DATE: Bonobo Network Presents Kiss and Tell: A Sexy Second Bass Party

The Watering Hole

Hot Girl Bayss

Art Jam 2025

Tantra Slow Dating -where singles can meet & couples deepen relationship!

Free Your Voice 10-wk Class with Phoenix Song Music

Awakening Sacred Sensuality- Daylong Tantra Workshop for Singles & Couples

QUARTZ: Queer Arts Faire

Love ✨ Making Dances

[CANCELED] Valentine’s Mongamous/ish Match-making at Victory Point Cafe

Falling in Love & Falling Back in Love- a Tantric Approach- SF

Strap

Magic Mycelium - Sound Healing Journey

Self Defense Workshop for Queer/Trans Folk

Bawdy Storytelling's 'Worth It!' (San Francisco, 2/7/25)

Free your voice & body stories 9 month training with Phoenix Song

Ms San Francisco Leather Contest

Ms SF Leather Contest Promotion

Free Your Voice 2 hour workshop