The White Horse Bar

Hi! We’re Emma and Fin! We’re a married couple in our thirties who have been exploring non-monogamy for over a decade. Every week we interview people from across the spectrums of gender, sexuality, and relationship styles to hear their amazing stories. We hope that by giving a voice to the diverse community exploring non-monogamy that we can show people they are not alone and inspire them to embrace their true selves so that, together, we can open minds and live authentically without shame.

Normalizing Non-Monogamy

Trellis Coworking, Events, Cafe & Bar

Wicked Grounds is a leader in BDSM and kink education in the San Francisco Bay Area and worldwide through our live online classes. We also offer individual coaching and consulting! All events are 18+. 

Wicked Grounds

Verdi Club

STORYTELLING IS ABOUT BUILDING A CONNECTION.
SO IS SEX.

Bawdy features true stories of sex, kink, body image, gender and more to build community, educate, entertain,  and bring people together. We do regular live storytelling events in multiple cities.


Bawdy Storytelling

FSCC

Trellis Coworking and Events

Stopgap (address provided to ticket holders)

Stopgap is the newest and oldest kink venue in San Francisco! While a new venue in its current iteration, the building itself has a rich history in the kink community as one of the prior locations of the SF Citadel. The first floor is fully accessible, with social and play spaces - including hardpoints. Descend into the 3100 square foot basement to on equipment that many in the community may have enjoyed in days gone by plus some newer pieces from our collection. There will be crosses, benches, 

Stopgap

Private venue (address provided with ticket purchase)

Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach &amp; educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, &amp; founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has pioneer research on the orgasm gap + queer &amp; trans experiences. She has extensive training in Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, Innate Somatic Intelligence Trauma Therapy Approach, &amp; Somatica Method. Dr. Aly designs workshops, courses, &amp; retreats &amp; offers individual, couples &amp; ENM coaching. 

TurnON.love

The Continental Club

The Ruckus Revival is a legendary underground show packed with uncensored acts, from jaw-dropping circus and acrobatics, to hilarious dirty haiku bouts, beat-boxers and audience-interactive mayhem in a fast-paced night of unfiltered entertainment! Winner of multiple "Best of the Bay" awards, and dubbed "consistently the most spectacular event that Oakland's ever seen" by the East Bay Express, Ruckus is the longest running variety show in the Bay Area.

The Ruckus Revival

Fable Retreat Center

The Fold (formerly “The Laundry”)

Community Living Wisdom Exchange

Address will be released to ticket holders

An online community rooted in real-world and virtual events where people can learn together – and from one another – about sexuality, pleasure, and relationships.

Bonobo Network

Forest Love

Play with a Purpose!
Dare. Dance. Thrive!

SoulPlay offers a magic-making playground filled with dynamic, immersive experiences where self-discovery, connection, &amp; transformation are woven into every moment. 

When we engage in play, we allow ourselves to step out of overthinking and into a state of flow. Experiment with complex ideas in a low stakes environment with the community support and encouragement you need to make it possible.

SoulPlay

The Stud

Bass n Babes

510 Firehouse

we are a queer art and housing collective operating out of the East Bay

The Spooky Haus

HeartLab

The Davon Method

6262 Highland Ave

Phoenix Song Music

The Center SF

PLACE - Community Center, Makerspace & Permaculture Site

Sebastopol

a spiritual kinky dance community for personal &amp; cultural liberation

Embody More Love

Victory Point Cafe

Formerly known as Poly Seeking Anchors. We host socials and matchmaking events for polyamorous and other nonmonogamous folx looking for deep connection and partnership.

Second Glances

The Davon Method Loft Space

Town Bar and Lounge 

Come Home To Your Body
Our mission is: Everyone at home in their body. We do this through somatic healing, movement, dance, and community. One-on-one coaching and workshops to increase your body confidence, decolonize your relationship to your body, and build your skills, strength, flexibility, musicality, and mind-body connection. Events to bring the community together and celebrate who we are.

Click Your Heels

Mission Yoga

Bluemusesoundhealing

Oakland

xtrasexyreality

The Green Yogi TELEGRAPH

The Foundry SF

Ms San Francisco Leather Contest Productions Team

LEATHER HOUSE &amp; EDUCATIONAL ORG. 
with
FREE, ONLINE CLASSES
DONATE:https://cash.app/$HOKHouseofKush
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                The House of Kush is an international leather organization committed to safe and consensual cannabis consumption and kink practices. Our mission beyond cannakink and kink practices is to advocate for the release of those still incarcerated for cannabis related crimes and suffering the consequences of a legal system woefully behind its recreational 

Featured Events

Non-Monogamy Speed Friending | September

San Francisco, CA: Kinky Queer Speed Friending/ Dating/ Whatever - FOLSOM EDITION

Bawdy's Folsom Street Fair Kinktacular

SF: Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab!

SF: Kinky Speed Friending with PsychoKitty

October House Party - on Every First Friday!

SF: Welcome to the Bay Area Scene with Miriam Green

SF: Dating While Kinky

Navigating Non-Monogamy: Level 1

Monster's Madhouse Halloween Spooktacular!

Sustainable Intimacy: Reignite the Flame for the Long Game Retreat

Mastering Non-Monogamy: Level 2

2025 Community Living Wisdom Exchange

SAVE THE DATE: Bonobo Network Presents Kiss and Tell: A Sexy Second Bass Party

Dixie’s Connection Carnival: A Sample Platter of IRL Dating Opportunities

The Watering Hole

Hot Girl Bayss

Art Jam 2025

Tantra Slow Dating -where singles can meet & couples deepen relationship!

Free Your Voice 10-wk Class with Phoenix Song Music

Awakening Sacred Sensuality- Daylong Tantra Workshop for Singles & Couples

QUARTZ: Queer Arts Faire

Love ✨ Making Dances

[CANCELED] Valentine’s Mongamous/ish Match-making at Victory Point Cafe

Falling in Love & Falling Back in Love- a Tantric Approach- SF

Strap

Magic Mycelium - Sound Healing Journey

Self Defense Workshop for Queer/Trans Folk

Bawdy Storytelling's 'Worth It!' (San Francisco, 2/7/25)

Free your voice & body stories 9 month training with Phoenix Song

Ms San Francisco Leather Contest

Ms SF Leather Contest Promotion

Free Your Voice 2 hour workshop