the Exiles 25th Anniversary Celebration

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Join Us in Celebrating 25 Years of The Exiles!

Dearest Exiles Members and our Extended Community,

We are thrilled to invite you to a remarkable milestone in our journey. As you know, The Exiles, as we stand today, is your favorite 501(c)3 women- and queer-centered educational organization, and it's time to celebrate 25 years! 

Our history, a symphony of education, desire, and evolution, traces back from the kinksters of Samois to the playful perverts of the Outcasts, culminating in The Exiles we are today. We have stood proudly as a beacon of Leather/BDSM education for the most daring, delicious deviants of San Francisco, fostering a safe space for exploration, camaraderie, and empowerment through education for women and genderqueers. 

We are here to commemorate not only our 25 years but also the remarkable history and individuals who paved the way for us over the decades. We owe our success to the dedicated and titillating rebels who volunteered their time and passion. From Exiles Leaders to Presenters to Volunteers to every Member of The Exiles is a part of this legacy.

Mark your calendars, spread the word, and get ready to revel in 25 years of history, growth, and the boundless future of The Exiles!

In Leather Love and Service,

the Exiles 🖤

What Awaits You at Our 25th Anniversary Rendezvous:

Join us on the first weekend of December, where desire and nostalgia intertwine in a weekend that will leave you breathless. 

Friday, we will kick off the weekend supporting the Ms. SF Leather Relaunch Party at the SF Eagle during Queer Leather Happy Hour. There, you will find Exiles volunteers adorned as sexy, naughty elves or lovely Pagan fairies. 

Saturday will include sensuous catered small bites by the enigmatic Mama Bear's Kitchen, tantalizing your taste buds. Witness the crowning moments as our Exiles Steering Committee bestows awards upon those who've ignited our passions. The Bootblacks (including Innocent, our '23 Northwest Bootblack), masters of their craft, will ensnare you in their siren call. Allow them to worship your Leather as you discover new pleasures. The enchanting lens of Maeve, our sultry photographer, will immortalize our electrifying celebration. Star Love, our emcee of seduction, will host enchanting performances from Alotta Boutte, Sydni Deveraux, High Note, and Mocha Fapallate that will ignite your innermost desires. 

As Sunday dawns, indulge in a 25th Anniversary Play Party (labor provided by House of Fire) with captivating demos that explore desires and boundaries. It's a journey to the heart of temptation, where your deepest cravings become reality.

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📅 Mark Your Calendars!

Friday Support Ms. SF Leather Launch Party @ QLHH

🗓️ **Date:** Dec 1st

🕢 **Time:** 6pm -9pm PST

🏢 **Location:** SF Eagle

Saturday Exiles 25th Celebration:

🗓️ **Date:** Dec 2nd

🕢 **Time:** 6pm -10pm PST

🏢 **Location:** Folsom Street Community Center

Sunday Exiles 25th Play Party:

🗓️ **Date:** Dec 3rd

🕢 **Time:** 1pm - 5pm PST

🏢 **Location:** Transform 1060


Early Bird Ticket Pricing is November 1st - 24th

Prices will increase $10 starting Nov 25th-30th

Saturday Tapas + Show:

Members $35 

Non-Members $45

*Open to all.

Sunday Play Party:

Members $25

Non-Members $35

*The Play Party is open to those who meet our membership eligibility.

For those eager to lend a helping hand, please reach out to us at In gratitude for your valuable time and support, we will gladly provide you with a special discount code. When you contact us, kindly share the specific area or capacity you're interested in volunteering. Your insights will assist us in making the most of your generous contribution.

If you are requesting a potential scholarship please reach out to us at

Donation Add Ons:

By donating, you empower The Exiles to maintain our vibrant tapestry of monthly educational and social gatherings, ensuring our presence at conferences through hospitality suites and growing our resources to provide more in-person events. 

Should you choose to contribute, kindly specify in the comments which exclusive "Thank-You-For-Your-Donation" merchandise you desire, and don't forget to include your preferred sizing.

Exiles Anniversary Pin $15

Exiles Anniversary T-Shirt $25

Exiles T-shirt $27

Exiles Sweatshirt $50

Covid Test $13

Donation $5-$2500

Covid Policy

For the well-being of all participants, we require that each guest provide proof of their COVID-19 vaccination status, including booster shots, during the ticket purchase process. 

Additionally, for our Sunday Play Party, please ensure you have a recent negative COVID test result on hand. 

Your commitment to these precautions ensures a secure and enjoyable experience for all.

Cancelation Policy

We recognize that unforeseen circumstances can alter your plans. Until November 19th, we will gladly provide a full refund for your Saturday and/or Sunday tickets, with only service fees deducted. 

Starting November 20th, refunds for Saturday and/or Sunday tickets will be limited to 50% of the ticket price. 

Please note that all donations are considered final and non-refundable. Your understanding and flexibility are greatly appreciated as we navigate these changes together.

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