Splash! — Nocturnal Play Party

  • Hosted by Spark Luscious Events
  • San Jose, CA -
  • 83 people on the list-

Splish! Splash! Spank!

Get ready to make a splash at our NOT-turnal pool party! Join us by the pool for an afternoon filled with sunshine, music, shibari & ariel performances, light refreshments, and a range of exciting kinky activities.

Take a peek at our schedule for details!

If this is your first Nocturnal Play Party, we strongly recommend attending our free online Intro to Nocturnal Play Party (Negotiation & Kink Etiquette)

Please read our pool party guideline before registering

Date: 29th July 2023 (Saturday)

Time: 12pm - 6pm

Location: Downtown San Jose

You will receive the address the day before the event via email

Dress Code: Hawaiian shirt, bikini, speedo, and sunscreen. DAH.

Dress Code is not mandatory


12 pm: Door opens

12 pm - 3 pm: Sunscreen station

1pm - 4pm: Serving food

1pm - 2:30 pm: Nocturnal Smash! Pool noodle flight tournament

2pm - 3:30 pm: “Shame!” for Display

2:30pm - 4:30pm: Rope & Ariel Performances

3pm - 4:30 pm: “Keijo!!” Pool-ass westling

3:30 pm: Door closes

5:30 pm: Wind down & Clean up

6 pm: Party ends


Paid what you can — Accessibility Ticket

USD 25

General Registration — Tier 1 Ticket

USD 50

Supporter 🙏 — Tier 2 Ticket

USD 70

Benefactor 🥺💕🙌 — Tier 3 Ticket

USD 90

Registration close at noon on 28th July

  • Why do we have a sliding scale for our tickets?
  • While we want to make sure our ticket is affordable to the general public, we wish to cover our expenses as well as be able to expand & host different types of kink events.

Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. Your support is appreciated and will help us keep running events! 🙌🏻

Dress code

Hawaiian shirt, bikini, speedo, and sunscreen... or just your kinky authentic self! 💕

The venue is located in Downtown San Jose, please dress appropriately - street-legal clothing in public areas. You may revive your true kinky self once you are inside the venue.

We will have signs to indicate "Fetish wear behind these doors ONLY."

The Venue

  • Play Space (Outdoor)
  • The outdoor play spaces are marked by black tape. The shaded play spaces are here to fit all of your passionate & kinky scenes! Feel free to embrace your nudity under the shade, however, please cover your genitals under the sun. We don’t want to disturb the residents across the road!

Please note that this party will be more pool-focused and less rope focused than our usual party.

  • Play Space (Indoor)
  • Play spaces to fit all of your passionate & kinky scenes… with air con! Check out the new screamer room if you are very expressive.
  • Social Area
  • Join your friends in the poolside social area to enjoy snacks and cool summer drinks while catching up and relaxing 💬
  • Cuddle Puddle
  • There will be no Cuddle Puddle for this party.

What should I bring?

Your kinky self and your toy/rope bag 💜 Remember to pack for you/your bottom's aftercare needs. Bring your stuffies/blankie to make yourself comfy! We will have snacks, drinks, and space to cuddle.

General Rules

Violation of the rules may result in a permanent ban from our future events. Serious consent violations may be reported to other kink groups.

Look for DMs and Hosts wearing bright neon green harnesses.

  1. Consent matters.

Ask for explicit consent before engaging in any activities with others. Always ask before touching, that goes for people and their belongings.

Only an enthusiastic YES is a yes. If the other person seems hesitant or doubtful, please take that as a “No.” and don’t ask again. You may offer future opportunities for them to reach out to you if they do change their mind. The key is: Let them come to you after the initial "No"

It is also important to clearly communicate the potential risk of the play to the best of your ability.

  1. Inclusivity is vital.

Zero tolerance for hate speech. Help create a safer space for everyone, regardless of their role, gender, ethnicity, orientation, religion, experience, or skill level.

  1. Respect the venue.

Do not vandalize or access closed-off areas. Keep the event location confidential and direct inquiries to official channels: Felife @Nocturnal_Event or email

  1. Dress vanilla outside of the event area.

Be discreet. There’s a ballet studio next door and vanilla people in the street. If you wish to step outside, please wear a big coat over your kink wear.

We have a changing and storage room for you to transform into your kinky authentic self ✨

  1. No photos, video and recording is allowed.
  2. Play responsibly.

Alcoholic drinks, cannabis, and other recreational substances are not allowed. Please be responsible and only participate when you are sober.

  1. No smoking / vaping
  2. No Glitter.
  3. The DMs & Hosts are here to help, but not here to parent you.

If someone is making you uncomfortable, go to the DMs, or ask your friend to accompany you to do so. We are here to help.

While we try our best to create a safe space, we can not police everything. Please use your own judgment when vouching play partners, ask around for references, ask a lot of questions, and trust your gut if anything feels off.

Apply critical thinking. Plan for a “buddy system”. Negotiate before the party instead of doing pick-up play.

  1. If you see something, say something (to the DMs/Hosts)

We need your help to create a safe space for everyone. If you notice something that doesn't seem quite right, speak up. Or please tell our DMs or the Hosts.

In case of unfortunate events or incident reports, please DM talk to us on Fetlife @Nocturnal_Events, or e-mail

  1. If you’re unsure if it’s permitted and the rules don’t mention it, ask a DM/host.

We can’t cover every possible kink and situation. If there’s any gray area, please ask us for permission before doing it, as you would do for negotiating with a new play partner.

The Pool Area

  1. No running.
  2. No diving or cannonballing into the pool.
  3. No glass around the pool.
  4. Rinse your body at the shower area before going into the pool.
  5. Nudity is not allowed outside of play spaces (in the pool & unshaded area.)

Please wear public pool-appropriate clothing in these areas. While we’d love to celebrate our bodies, nudity is against the law in public places and on private property if the nude person is visible to the public, such as through an open window or sunbathing nude in the yard.

  1. Light and non-sexual play is allowed.

Light and non-sexual play is allowed, including bondage, impact play, and D/s activities. However, active sexual play like oral sex and fingering is not permitted. Static insertion toys, such as butt plugs, are allowed. If you wish to further explore your kink and sexuality, bring your scene into the play spaces!

  1. Limit makeup and keep it clean if going in the pool.
  2. Do not pee in the pool. Ew.
  3. No food or drinks in the pool.
  4. Do not block the pool entry.
  5. While pool floats, toys, and water guns are allowed, please be considerate and avoid excessive splashing into the social and play area.
  6. Water bondage is allowed, but must be supervised by a designated Top. If you are restricted, your head must stay above water the whole time (use a floatie or pool noodle)
  7. Any form of breath play, including waterboarding or drowning, is strictly prohibited.

Outdoor Play Space

  1. The outdoor play spaces are marked by floor tape and under the shaded canopy.
  2. Respect our neighbors and keep noise levels moderate. If you are a screamer, please bring your scene indoors (try out our new Screamer Room!)
  3. All other play space rules apply.

Play Space

  1. House Safeword is “SAFEWORD”
  2. No phone allowed in the Play Space.
  3. Keep the space clean.

Clean furniture and mats with provided cleaning spray before AND after your scenes. Disposable sheets and waterproof pads are available.

  1. Clean up after your scene.
  2. Wear a glow stick on your wrist to indicate openness to conversation.

No glow stick means do not initiate conversation.

Red glow stick means no pick-up play but open to conversation.

Green glow stick means open to conversation and potential pick-up play.

Details on our Glow Stick System

6. Do not interrupt others’ scenes. Report suspected unsafe situations to DMs or Hosts.

  1. If not participating in a scene, stay outside the play zones (marked by white tape).

Avoid hoarding play stations if your scene isn't starting within 15 minutes.

  1. You may move furniture within the play zone. Ask a DM for assistance if needed.
  2. Do not lock shackles onto furniture. You may use handcuffs with a belt or hook-and-loop tapes for attachment.
  3. We have a hard ban on breath play, sharp/blood play, knife play, fire play, golden shower/scat play, and "full" (penetrative) sexual intercourse.

Lit candles are allowed for wax play. Ensure that you hold them or extinguish the flames before setting them down. Check with a DM or Host for clarification.

Impact Play

  1. Do not aim to draw blood, as blood play is not allowed.
  2. Clear the area when using single tails or other whippy toys. Inform DMs to keep others at a distance.

Shibari / Rope Bondage

  1. Only suspend from designated hard points.
  2. Bring your own (graded) suspension gear.
  3. There will be some puzzle mats provided for your shibari/rope bondage scenes. You can also bring your own mats/blankets.

Wrestling / Rough Body Play

  1. Remove any jewelry. Especially if they were sharp.
  2. Everyone must stay on their knees or lower at all times.
  3. Lay down puzzle mats or soft padding.

We are providing some puzzle mats for your scenes. You can also bring your own mats/blankets. Be mindful of where you set up, and avoid the social area and doorway as people might be walking through a lot. Notify the DMs so they know to keep people away.

Wax Play

  1. Cover the floor and furniture with puzzle mats and disposable sheets. Be cautious of wax splashing.

Group Scene

  1. Make sure to negotiate clearly who is involved BEFORE the scene.
  2. Do not ask to join an ongoing group scene.

Watch from a distance outside the play zone. If they want you to join in, they will invite you.

Sexual Play

  1. Penis-in-vagina, penis-in-anus, and pegging are not allowed.

While we do not allow “home-base” sexual play — "full" (penetrative) sexual intercourse, you may explore your sexuality with insertable toys, your all-powerful hands and your oral cavity.

  1. Lay down absorbent pads under the bottom and your used toys, or wherever your body fluid might touch. NO ONE wants to touch or step on your body fluid.
  2. PLEASE clean your rectum at home before anal play.
  3. No one wants to smell your shit :< It’s not sexy (to most people)

For a quick summary...

🚫 Penis in vagina

🚫 Penis in anus

🚫 Pegging (from all genders, to all holes.) Using a strap on or holding any insertables and thrusting with your hip = pegging.

✅ Anal toys (plugs, hooks, dildos, beads, speculum etc.)

✅ Insertable toys in vagina (dildos, speculum, vibrator etc.)

✅ Fingering (in whichever hole)

✅ Oral sex

✅ “Outside” stimulation: Hand jobs, Hitachi, slapping, rubbing etc.

If you made a mess on the carpet/sofa, there will be a $500 fine (to the venue.)

Other Play

You can enjoy exploring most types of power exchange / BDSM / Fetish play as long as everyone involved consents and is risk-aware.

We have a hard ban on breath play, sharp/blood play, knife play, fire play, golden shower/scat play, and "full" (penetrative) sexual intercourse.

If you are not sure we allow the type of kink you want to explore at our events, or you need special accommodation/set up for your scene, please contact the Host @Nocturnal_Events BEFORE the event.

See our more detailed guidelines to plan your scenes.

Covid & Health Policy

  1. Mask is recommended, especially in the social area, but not required.
  2. Being vaccinated with at least the basic vaccine is a must.
  3. Please take a home test (antigen rapid test) on the day of the party. During check-in, you will have to show a photo of your test result, with the date, time & your preferred name written on/near the test card.
  4. If you feel sick, stay home.

When in doubt, email

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Last Edited 6 July 2023

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