Got milk? An Intimate, Wet and Messy Intro to Lactation Play w/ Athénaïs Nin

Got Milk? Lactation play is a twist on playing with bodily fluids and a way we can hack our bodies and even experience gender-pleasure. Most discussions of inducing lactation are cisheteronormative and focused on the context of pregnancy and child feeding. This workshop explicitly centers trans bodies and lactation in the context of D/s and risk-aware consensual kink (RACK), with an emphasis on Mommy-little one dynamics (although all caregiver dynamics are welcome). Learn all the fun things you can do with milk, from pumping and nursing, to squirting and spraying, to crafting delectable treats. We’ll discuss how to induce/promote lactation; how to use breast/chest milk to nurture, dominate, and connect with partners; and the different ways lactation can be incorporated into scenes, including pre-care, attachment play, food play, breeding, wet and messy play (WAM), and aftercare.This workshop is taught from a risk-aware and trauma-informed perspective and will include a live demo scene.

COVID/RSV/flu Mitigation Protocols:

We are requiring enhanced COVID/RSV/flu mitigation protocols for in-person attendees. Participants are asked to mask using KN95s/KF94s/N95s (KF94s and N95s will be on hand and available to in person participants who do not have a mask). Testing no more than 2 hours before the event is requested and recommended. We will also have at least one HEPA filter in the space. If you are experiencing symptoms of cold/flu/RSV/COVID-19 or if you learn that you have been exposed to someone who has tested positive for any of these within the last week, please request a refund.

Bio:

Athénaïs Nin (she/they) is a white, neurospicy, queer, kinky, transmisogny-affected leather femme, and a proud Mommy and polymorphously perverse slut with a literary disposition and penchants for carnality and decadence. She delights in auralism, lactation, romantic sadism, muffing, thoroughly spoiling her little ones, and being, as one of her namesakes writes, “a courtesan depositor of multiple desires.” She has a background in erotic literature and is an author and sex educator. A piece of their erotica, “Blood of the Divine,” is presently featured as part of AORTA films’ audio erotica experiment, HOTLINE.

About FWB

FWB is a private social club in Los Angeles founded by queer women for open-minded people to meet, explore, and play.

We provide a wide range of sex-positive programming, including socials, workshops, weeknight and weekend themed play parties. We offer a mobile-friendly online platform via the FWB app for groups and individuals to promote their events and find community. 

Our philosophy: “Come for the orgy, stay for the friends”. When a baseline of openness, connection, friendship, and community is at the center of our events, we believe magic can happen. 

Friends with Benefits is proud to be gender inclusive, newbie friendly, accessibly priced, and independently owned. Contact us on our website for more information on space rentals and private party event packages. 

Apply for membership online at https://fwb.events

FAQs

How old do you have to be to join Friends with Benefits? 

You must be at least 25 years old to join FWB. 

Where are you located? 

Our clubhouse is located in Downtown Los Angeles. Unless otherwise stated, all of our events are located in Downtown.

I’m interested in trying out a play event. How can I attend?

1. Apply online
2. Attend a new member interview with a member of our team
3. Purchase a membership or single ticket and RSVP

All attendees must submit an application and be approved prior to RSVPing or attending an event. We recommend at 2-4 weeks lead time for approval.

Do you check STI status?

While we strongly encourage all of our members to get regular STI screenings, we do not require proof of STI results to attend our parties. Members who provide results within one month of an event and show their results will receive a black wrist band for the event. 

There are so many risk-free ways to engage in pleasure at our events (massage, sensual touch, watching, good conversation etc). If you’re unsure of your status, we encourage you to err on the side of caution for the health and safety of yourself and our community.

What is provided at play events?

Snacks and mixers are provided. BYOB. For playtime we provide barriers, including condoms, dental dams, and finger condoms, lube, wipes, and more for you to use during play time. 

What can I bring? 

We provide coat check. You are welcome to bring your own alcohol, toys, or playtime accessories. 

How much does it cost? 

Our membership starts at $30/mo and includes options for event packages which includes weeknight only ($60/mo) or weeknight and weekend events ($90/mo). Single tickets start at $20-50 for play events. Social events are $5 for non-members. Workshops are $20 for non-members.

CONTACT US

Email friends@fwb.events if you’d like more information on private rentals, collaboration, sponsorship, or have any questions.