This month’s Spank Jam is a shorter, lighthearted class before the Spanksgiving Party, hosted on Wednesday November 25. We’ll warm up with some seasonal silliness, explore kitchen pervertables, and share ideas for playful impact scenes using household items that you might already own.

Bring a pervertable that fits the theme. Think spatulas, rolling pins, or anything else that screams “ridiculous holiday chaos” and get ready for a joyful start to the festivities.

Stay for Spanksgiving at 8 PM - grab the combo ticket for both!

Back in pre-covid times we used to throw Spanksgiving parties at the Citadel to warmly ease in the holiday weekend. Now we're continuing the tradition at San Francisco's newest kink club - Paradox - by again hosting a fun and sexy kink party the night before Thanksgiving Day. All kinksters are welcome. Our inclusive, pansexual play party is open to all genders and orientations.

We'd love to party with you all for the holiday so join us for Spanksgiving at Paradox for delicious food, opportunities to connect, and a whole lot of hot fun on a cold November night. While the name of the party is indeed Spanksgiving, you don't have to limit yourself to just impact play. All kinds of kinky play is welcome and encouraged (within venue rules). Start the holiday with your community. Chances are it's going to be more fun than hanging with your family!

For more details about the party and to buy a $55 (plus platform fee) combined ticket for both events, see our separate Spanksgiving at Paradox listing!

The Venue

• This event will take place at Paradox - 1310 Mission Street, San Francisco, CA. It is in SoMa and a 10 minute walk from the UN Plaza/Civic Center BART station.
• No alcohol or drugs are permitted on the premises. If you violate this rule, you will be asked to leave and no refunds will be given.

Consent is Paramount

Part of our responsibility in fostering a consent culture is to provide some guidance to help prevent consent incidents from happening at our events.

Please make sure you read and understand our event rules and consent guidelines before you come to any AfterDark event. By coming to an event you acknowledge that you understand the rules and agree to abide by them. If you have any questions or need clarification on any of our rules or guidelines please contact us before coming to an event.

Any consent concerns can be confidentially given to the hosts at the event or by email at info@afterdark-events.com.

Inclusivity & Safety:

• We warmly invite and encourage adults of all ages, races, ethnicities, gender identities, sexual orientations, and abilities to attend our event. We are committed to creating an inclusive and welcoming environment where everyone can feel safe, respected, and celebrated. Your unique identity and experiences enrich our community, and we look forward to sharing this special experience with you.
• Consent and respectful behavior required. Read the event rules and consent guidelines.
• If you are having symptoms consistent with COVID-19 or other infectious diseases please stay home and do not come to the space until you are better.

Refund Policy

• No Refunds. All sales are final.

Accessibility Notes:

• The entrance to the space is on the ground floor and is wheelchair-accessible, including social area, play area, and two accessible all-gender bathrooms. The mezzanine level above the bathrooms and upstairs Loft areas can only be reached via stairs. During the party there will be music playing throughout the night, and ear plugs may be available at the front desk. There are colored lights in use throughout the venue, including moving “party lights” for ambiance. Cell phones must be stowed; however, you may speak to a host or DM (Dungeon Monitor) about reasonable accommodations if needed for things such as continuous glucose monitoring.
• For further questions and accessibility requests, please reach out in advance by email to info@afterdark-events.com.