We'd love to see you all for the holiday so join us for Spanksgiving at Paradox; for delicious food, opportunities to connect, and a whole lot of hot fun on a cold November night. While the name of the party is indeed Spanksgiving, you don't have to limit yourself to just impact play. All kinds of kinky play is welcome and encouraged (within venue rules). See in the holiday with your community. Chances are it's going to be more fun than hanging with your family!

Spanksgiving, the night-before-Thanksgiving play party for everyone, is going to be hosted at Paradox this year. Pansexual, inclusive, all genders welcome. Impact, bondage, sensation - if it’s within venue rules, bring it. Skip the small talk, start the sparks: food, connections, community, and a high-end, sexy club to warm up the holiday.

Going home for the holidays can be stressful, so before you pack your bags for turkey time, come join your chosen family for a little gratitude, giggling, and good old-fashioned spanking fun. See you there!

Spanksgiving Highlights:

• An accessible and affirming space - explore and express yourself freely in a consent-forward environment free of judgement.
• Multiple play areas equipped for kink and sexual activities.
• Skilled and friendly house tops will be offering exciting samplers.
• Stickers and wristband system to facilitate connections.
• Dedicated social area, dungeon, fuck room, mezzanine and VIP rooms.
• Atmospheric music, lighting, and vibes to ensure you enjoy the night.

Bonus: Join us at 6PM for a holiday edition of Spank Jam!.

This month’s SpankJam is a shorter, lighthearted class before our party. We’ll warm up with some seasonal silliness, explore Thanksgiving-themed pervertables, and share ideas for playful impact scenes using household items that might already be in your kitchen. Bring a pervertable that fits the theme. Think spatulas, rolling pins, or anything else that screams “ridiculous holiday chaos” and get ready for a joyful start to the festivities.

For more details, check out the separate Spank Jam - Spanksgiving Listing

What makes you feel sexy, confident, ready to take on the world?

• General dungeon wear?
• Costumes?
• Leather or rubber?
• Skimpy lingerie that leaves little to the imagination?
• Club outfits?
• Something else?

Whatever it is, we want it here. Bring it. Just be mindful that you might have to wait in line outside when you arrive and that you are welcome to arrive in regular clothes and then change into your kinky outfit once you get inside.

The Venue

• This event will take place at Paradox - 1310 Mission Street, San Francisco, CA. It is in SoMa and a 10 minute walk from the UN Plaza/Civic Center BART station.
• No alcohol or drugs are permitted on the premises. If you violate this rule, you will be asked to leave and no refunds will be given.

Consent is Paramount

Part of our responsibility in fostering a consent culture is to provide some guidance to help prevent consent incidents from happening at our events.

Please make sure you read and understand our event rules and consent guidelines before you come to any Paradox event. By coming to an event you acknowledge that you understand the rules and agree to abide by them. If you have any questions or need clarification on any of our rules or guidelines please contact us before coming to an event.

Any consent concerns can be confidentially given to the hosts at the event or by email at info@paradox-sf.com.

Dress Code:

Whatever makes you feel like you are confident or comfortable. Please be mindful that you might have to wait in line outside (it may be cold) and that you are welcome to arrive in regular clothes and then change into your kinky outfit once you get inside!

Inclusivity & Safety:

• We warmly invite and encourage individuals of all ages, races, ethnicities, gender identities, sexual orientations, and abilities to attend our event. We are committed to creating an inclusive and welcoming environment where everyone can feel safe, respected, and celebrated. Your unique identity and experiences enrich our community, and we look forward to sharing this special experience with you.
• Consent and respectful behavior required. Read the event rules and consent guidelines.
• If you are having symptoms consistent with COVID-19 or other infectious diseases please stay home and do not come to the space until you are better.

Refund Policy

• No Refunds. All sales are Final.

Accessibility Notes:

• The entrance to the space is on the ground floor and is wheelchair-accessible, including social area, play area, and two accessible all-gender bathrooms. The mezzanine level above the bathrooms and upstairs Loft areas can only be reached via stairs. There will be music playing throughout the night, and ear plugs may be available at the front desk. There are colored lights in use throughout the venue, including moving “party lights” for ambiance. Cell phones may be prohibited from being used at the event venue and must be stored; however, you may speak to a host or DM about reasonable accommodations if needed for things such as continuous glucose monitoring.
• For further questions and accessibility requests, please reach out in advance by email to info@paradox-sf.com.