The Honey Room

SoCal Sapphics welcomes you to The Honey Room -- a lush, golden space crafted exclusively for BIPOC sapphics to soften, savor, and explore. Here, sweetness lingers in the air and connection flows slow and intentional, inviting you to indulge in desire and presence on your own terms.

THIS EVENT IS ONLY FOR BIPOC ENBIES, WOMEN, AND FEMMES 25+. All attendees must complete SoCal Sapphics vetting form (tinyurl.com/socalsapphicsvetting) by 8/14/26. RSVP and DM and you will be sent more info 💋

Please read all the info below carefully. Purchasing a ticket is your acknowledgment of all the following:

~WHAT TO EXPECT~

The Honey Room is a low pressure environment for players of all experience levels to explore group play and kink. There is no expectation to play, but there will certainly be play happening, so if you catch a vibe don’t be shy! We will also have some sexy games to play, and plenty of opportunity to connect.

Dress Code is Honey Dripped & Desired 🍯

Come dressed in softness, sweetness, and seduction - however that lives in your body. Think silks, satins, mesh, lace, sheer moments… Golds, ambers, browns, warm tones (like honey in all its shades)… Accessories that drip, shimmer, or catch the light… Personal cultural adornment and expression… Skin is more than welcome…

There will be plenty of water and snacks available for free.

There will be a Consent Talk before any play can begin in the space. Disregarding the boundaries of any person will result in being removed from the event. If you feel uncomfortable or unsafe at any time, please let consent guardians know.

~ADDRESS & TRANSPORTATION~

Address and parking information will be provided upon approved registration. Space is limited, so RSVP early to secure your spot.

~WHAT TO BRING~

Personal toys (rope, vibrators, floggers, wands, etc) are allowed and encouraged.

A curious mind, open spirit, and optimistic attitude!

~ARRIVAL~

Come early to vibe! The more time you have in the space, the more comfortable you will feel, and comfort enhances every experience. More time spent vibing often translates to more time spent playing.

Doors close at 12:30 for Consent Talk. This cutoff time and talk is non-negotiable. If you need to come later, you must reach out in advance. Please do not show up just to get turned away because you did not follow protocol.

There will also be NO INS AND OUTS. Please make sure to bring everything you need with you inside. Phones will be collected at check in, so you may leave them in your car if you don't need it for payment. Regarding outdoor volume, please be mindful, considerate, demure.

~ACCESSIBILITY~

Masks are encouraged but not required. NO SMOKING indoors.

The building is ADA accessible. There is an elevator. It is noisy but safe. Note for people with wheelchairs, canes, other walking assistance devices: the tile of the lobby floor is uneven so be careful navigating, and the bathroom is not ADA compliant.

This is a low-scent event: no perfume, cologne, or essential oils. The venue is a no-shoe space.

~TESTING~

We encourage you to get tested for STIs and STDs before the party, most notably gonorrhea, chlamydia, Hepatitis C, HIV, and syphilis. Ask your provider for anal, vaginal, and mouth swabs if they don’t automatically provide these tests. If you live with HSV or similar, be mindful of flareups and remember that disclosure is an important part of consent.

Planned Parenthood and the your local LGBT Center are places where you can get tested. You can also check these websites for sites in your county to receive testing: LA County, Orange County, San Diego County, and San Bernardino County.

** You can show us recent test results (within the last 42 days) and if you are clear you will receive a clear wristband. No one is required to show us a test. Folks who do not show us a clear test will receive a black wristband. Regardless, it is always best practice to have conversations about status with a partner before playing with them.

We encourage you to get tested for COVID within 3 days of the party. Due to the lack of accessibility of COVID tests at this time, testing is not a requirement. Please do not come if you are sick or feeling unwell. **You will have the option to show a recent negative COVID test at the door.