Three Ring Circus A Kinky Circus & Oddities Play Party Play

Produced by Three Femme Ring Leaders: Amande, Subtelty & JessJessin collaboration with Beyond the Rainbow Events

Saturday, November 7, 2026

8:00pm - 2:00am

Oakland, CA - address released to ticket holders

GET TICKETS HERE

Step right up, you beautiful bunch of freaks, geeks, kinksters, and curious creatures... the circus is coming to town.

For one spectacular night, we're transforming the venue into a Three Ring Circus… a strange and sexy world filled with performances, kinky attractions, curious oddities, interactive experiences, dancing, vendors, and plenty of opportunities to play.

This isn't a circus where you sit quietly in the audience.

You are part of the show.

Wander from attraction to attraction and see what catches your curiosity. Test your skills at a kinky circus game. Explore a new sensation. Have your fortune told. Browse strange and wonderful wares. Catch a performance. Dance beneath the lights. Find someone intriguing. Or slip away from the spectacle and create a little entertainment of your own in one of our play spaces.

Whether you're a seasoned kinkster, curious newcomer, magnificent show pony, mischievous clown, daring aerialist, fabulous freak, or simply someone who enjoys a little beautifully organized chaos, there's a place for you in our circus.

Come one. Come all. Come weird.Welcome to the Three Ring Circus! 🎪✨

AGENDA:

Doors Open: 8pm

Performances: 9:30pm

Doors Close at: 11pm

You must arrive before then!

House Top 11pm-12:30pm

Oddities 11pm-12:30pm

Party Ends at: 2am

Indulge your curiosity, embrace your fantasies, and connect with like-minded souls in a space where every moment is an invitation to explore.

VENT FEATURES:

🎭 Spectacular Performances

🎯 Kinky Circus Games

🔮 Oddities & Curiosities

🛍️ Curious Wares

🔥 Play Spaces

🍿 Circus Snacks

📸 Photo Booth

🎪 YOUR RINGLEADER: Dixie De La Tour 🎪

Your Ringleader for the evening, keeping the show moving, introducing our performers, and guiding you through the wonderfully weird world of the Three Ring Circus!

Dixie De La Tour is a legendary figure in the Bay Area sex-positive arts scene... part storyteller, part ringmaster, and fully devoted to celebrating raw, real, and often hilarious human experiences around sex, relationships, and identity.

She's the creator and longtime host of Bawdy Storytelling (which just celebrated 20 years!!), one of the most iconic live storytelling shows centered on sex and intimacy. It started in San Francisco and has toured internationally. Known for her ability to make strangers feel like co-conspirators in something deliciously intimate, Dixie brings a bold, playful, and deeply human energy to everything she touches. Expect to feel seen, turned on (in more ways than one), and maybe even inspired to share a little more of yourself.

🎭 UNDER THE SPOTLIGHT

The circus wouldn’t be complete without a show! Get ready for an evening of strange, spectacular, and delightfully unexpected performances featuring:

LUCY JUGGLES

www.lucyjuggles.com/

Lucy Juggles is a professional circus and burlesque artist and brings a raw and passionate enthusiasm to the stage with a unique collection of erotic circus acts that put the “harm” in “charming.” She works full time as a comedy circus performer and does tricks on the street for money in San Francisco.

MOOOOO & AMARIS

https://fetlife.com/Mooooo

Mooooo & Amaris bring rope suspension to the circus with a slightly unhinged twist. While Amaris is tied up and hanging around, Mooooo decides to give their frown a little clown-inspired makeover.

Mooooo is a sadomasochist swtich, artist, and the human behind Nocturnal Events (https://fetlife.com/Nocturnal_Events), hosting kink events and workshops around the Bay Area. They love shibari, creative ways of hurting people affectionately, and a healthy dose of chaos and whimsy. OwO

LION TAMING WITH CIRCUS MOUSE & TECHNICALLY TEDDY

Step right up for a lion-taming act with a decidedly kinky twist. Circus Mouse begins as a feral, ferocious beast while Teddy attempts to bring their unruly lion to heel through dominance, boots, and skilled whip work. Will the beast actually be tamed? You'll have to stick around to find out.

CIRCUS MOUSE

https://fetlife.com/CircusMouse

Circus Mouse is a queer, gender-fucky sadomasochist, switch, and service submissive. They’re active in the Bay Area kink scene as a host, volunteer, and lover of whips, leather, silly impact toys, and community service. They’re also a squeaky little menace.

TECHNICALLY TEDDY

https://fetlife.com/TechnicallyTeddy

Technically Teddy is a Dom-leaning switch, impact Top, and increasingly enthusiastic whip wielder. His toy bag ranges from whips and canes to frog fly swatters and jingling cat toys. He likes his kink skilled, playful, and occasionally ridiculous.

🎪 STEP RIGHT UP: HOUSE TOPS!🎪

ABOUT NYXIE NOC AKA BAD CANDY CLOWN

Nyxie Noc (any/all pronouns) is a kink presenter, community organizer, and Program Coordinator at Praxium, with a background as a former sex worker, content producer, and consultant. Known for bringing fresh, expansive, and creative perspectives to kink, Nyx has presented for AfterDark, Let it Reign, New Mexico Leather League, Service Oriented Conference, the Portland Leather Alliance, Boundless Events, Nocturnal Events, Bonobo Network, Sex Positive World, DomCon, Kinky Kollege, and Sex Geek Summer Camp. Their teaching emphasizes the power of consent and agency as foundations for safer, more intentional play, while also inviting participants to embrace playful curiosity, imagination, and edge in their explorations. Fun, dynamic, and deeply invested in equity and inclusion, Nyx creates spaces where people can grow, connect, and discover new ways to experience kink with authenticity and joy. For more info on where they teach, what they do, and everything else, visit https://linktr.ee/viridi_lux_consulting

Bad Candy the Clown ( Nyxie Noc) will offer sadistic tickling to tease and torment, making you question your life choices and leave you breathless in the process. If you’re good, you get candy. If you’re bad, you get candy. All of the candy is Bad Candy.

ODDITIES

Every circus needs its curiosities, oddities, games, and wonderfully strange attractions… and this is where you come in.

Our community has stepped up to bring some seriously fun, kinky, silly, and downright bizarre experiences to our Three Ring Circus. Whether you want to play a game, test your luck, get a little hands-on, or just enjoy the spectacle, there's something for everyone!

🎈 Impact Balloon Pop

Think you have good aim with a flogger or paddle? Put those impact skills to the test! Try to pop balloons attached to a spanking bench or a consenting human volunteer. It's a carnival classic with a kinky twist!

🎡 Spin the Kinky Wheel

Feeling lucky? Give the wheel a spin and see what fate has in store! You might find yourself getting tickled with a feather, spanked with a rubber chicken, challenged to perform something ridiculous, or even roaring like a lion in heat! With 12 possible outcomes, you never know what you're going to get. All activities are consent-based, of course!

🧜‍♀️ The Bearded Mermaid

What's a circus without a magnificent sideshow curiosity? Come meet our Bearded Mermaid for live music, games, and a little bit of unexpected magic!

🔮 Tarot Card Readings

Curious what the universe has in store for you? Sit down for a tarot reading and see what the cards reveal. Maybe they'll tell you something delightfully naughty!

🤡 Roaming Clowns

Keep your eyes open! Our roaming clowns will be wandering through the circus, bringing mischief, laughter, and a little bit of chaos wherever they go.

🍆 Dildo Ring Toss

You know the classic carnival ring toss? Well, we've made it a whole lot more adult! Test your aim and see if you can land those rings on some very interesting targets.

🎨 Face & Body Painting

Get into the circus spirit with some colorful face or body art! Whether you're looking for something cute, creepy, sexy, or completely ridiculous, let our artists add a little extra flair to your evening.

🛍️ CIRCUS MARKETPLACE

• MADE BY MOOOOO: Mooooo will be bringing art from @Made_by_Mooooo (Fetlife) to the Big Top, including a special circus-themed print with an exclusive, unofficial version available only at the party!
• HexSlut (FetLife: @CodieCreates), bringing rope, bamboo, rope care supplies, rope bags, Kandi bracelets, and more. Come say hi, browse their wares, and maybe leave with something pretty or something to tie someone up with.
• BDSM GLASS ARTS AND CRAFTS: Looking to add something wicked to your toy collection? Mx Rix will be vending crops, floggers, flogger and cane bags, evil sticks, and more! Check our their creations here: https://www.etsy.com/shop/BDSMglassART

PHOTO BOOTH

Don’t forget to stop by our circus-themed photo booth and capture a little evidence of your night under the Big Top! Grab your friends, strike a pose, and make some delightfully wicked memories. 🎪✨ Pictures only allowed in this area.

DRESS CODE

Step right up and dress like you belong under the big top! Circus-inspired attire, fetishwear, lingerie, and creative costumes are all encouraged.

Think ringmasters, clowns, aerialists, acrobats, strongpeople, showgirls, fortune tellers, magicians, sideshow oddities, circus creatures, burlesque beauties, vintage circus glamour, and wonderfully weird creations.

🎪 Not a costume person? No problem! Fetishwear, lingerie, or something that makes you feel fabulous and ready to play fits right in.

Check out the Lookbook for inspiration: https://www.pinterest.com/eplussf/three-ring-circus-lookbook/

SNACKS AND BYOB

We do not sell nor serve alcohol. You are welcome to BYOB. Please drop off your bottles at the bar where a designated person will label and bottle-sit your bottles. When you want a drink, head back to your stored bottle, you must pour your own drinks (as per regulations), and return the bottle. Ice and a few mixers will be available, feel free to bring more. Kindly consume alcohol in a responsible manner and remember to bring your beverages with you when departing for the evening. In general we want to make sure that everyone is present and able to give consent - please stay in your body and be able to function at all times. We will supply a few snacks and highly encourage you to bring a snack to add to the snack table. After so much play we will want some snacks!

🎟️ TICKET INFO 🎟️

This is a 21+ event

🎟️ Secure Your Spot! Ensure your place in this one-of-a-kind experience. Embark on a journey of fantasy, sensuality, and carnival delight.

Opening Act: $45.00

First Act: $55.00

Second Act: $65.00

Final Call: $75.00

At the Door: $85.00

GET TICKETS HERE

PAL SYSTEM:

We will be using the PAL SYSTEM - Please do not buy a ticket unless you have confirmed a PAL.

PAL SYSTEM: To help keep this event safe and consensual, we are adapting the PAL System. To attend, you MUST arrive & leave with a responsible partner, your “PAL” for the night. There's no need to be a couple, but you are both responsible for each other during the party. You can have more than one PAL? Yes! Come as a group! See Beyond the Rainbow Events Consent & Code of Conduct Guidelines for full PAL SYSTEM and a lot of commonly asked questions: docs.google.com/document{…}=sharing

VOLUNTEERING:

Volunteering is a great way to meet people, and feel involved in the community, plus you get in for free! Secure your volunteer ticket now!

Decoration Team

Join the Decoration Team the day before the party to transform the space and bring the theme to life. Come hang decorations, set the scene, and help us turn the venue into something spectacular.

Pre-Event Setup

Help set up the safe sex supplies, sheets, decorations, and bar for the party.

Door

Uses the computer to check in guests as they arrive. Collects money from people paying for their ticket at the door or purchasing a covid test. Must have some experience.

Charter

Explains the rules of the party. Asks guests if they have been to Beyond the Rainbow Events or Mission Control before. Everyone has read the charter out loud. This job requires someone familiar with play parties.

Bottle Check

Hang out behind the bar, keep track of people’s drinks by labeling them, offer cups, ice and mixers. Also keeps the party safe by suggesting to people to stop drinking when they are overly tipsy, and do not serve drunks.

Reset Space

Help us reset the space after the show! This includes stacking and moving chairs and bringing out the double-sided cross for our House Top. This is a quick and easy volunteer shift that should only take a short amount of time. Nothing is particularly heavy, but please be comfortable lifting and moving a few items.

Cleanup

Cleans up sheets, toys, empties trash, cleans up messes, takes down the bar, moves furniture back to the proper place. You get to enjoy the whole party, and it usually only takes 1/2-1 hour to take it all down!

VENUE:

We regret to inform you that this venue space is not fully wheelchair-friendly. While the first floor is accessible, there are stairs leading to other areas of the venue, which may pose a challenge for individuals with mobility impairments. As of June 2026, bathrooms are equipped with wheelchair-accessible facilities. We apologize for any inconvenience this may cause and are committed to making accommodations wherever possible. If you have specific accessibility needs or require further assistance, please do not hesitate to contact us in advance, and we will do our utmost to assist you.

CONNECT:

Want to see who's going, match, chat, and meet the community? Check out Three Ring Circus on:

• Plura - https://plra.io/m/three-ring-circus-11-07-26
• Facebook Event (private) - https://fb.me/e/8qviEJvRf
• Fetlife Event - https://fetlife.com/events/2026/11/07/three-ring-circus-a-kinky-circus-oddities-play-party-play-sywbau
• Join Private Facebook Group

ABOUT YOUR HOSTS

Amande (she/her) (pronounced “ah-MAHND,” she/her)

She is a Bay Area community organizer, sex-positive community member, and a co-founder of AfterDark. With 15 years of experience producing gatherings and keeping events running behind the scenes, she loves creating spaces where people feel welcomed and connected. She also brings that experience to her work with the Bonobo Network and Mission Control. For Bonobo, she serves as Member Services Lead, supporting members. For the annual Bonobo retreat, she serves as Volunteer Manager and wears a few other hats. At Mission Control, she is a House Manager and host of Pink. Amande believes thoughtful community building and a little playful mischief belong together.

eleana/subtlety (she/they)

She is a queer kinkster with an affinity for the curious, kinky, and delicious! She has been active in the kink, sex-positive, and burner communities for over a decade as an organizer, producer, educator, and performance artist. She wears a lot of hats, has too many hobbies, and helps organizations produce events behind the scenes up and down the west coast. She’s a cat person— but will pet your dog!

JessJess (she/her) So Nice You Say it Twice!

She has been organizing and hosting a variety of events in the Bay Area for close to a decade. She has a strong belief in the power of connection, she thrives on fostering engagement, encouraging dialogue, and creating a welcoming inclusive atmosphere that brings people together. She runs Beyond the Rainbow Events! Beyond that role she is Bonobo Network’s Community Manager, one of the largest sex + communities rooted in real-world and virtual events where people learn together – and from one another. You can also find her as a regular host, house manager and board member at Mission Control hosting events such as Peek, Threshold, SnuggleSpells and Pink. These are just some of the communities JessJess works with, she is committed to creating spaces where everyone can feel valued, respected, and appreciated.

Beyond the Rainbow Events is a welcoming and enjoyable environment to socialize, play, connect, and explore. Our events are sex-positive and kink focused. All gender identities, sexual orientations, relationship styles, races, ethnicities, body shapes, roles, and experience levels are welcomed and celebrated in these spaces.

SAFTEY

COVID: This event encourages you to be vaccinated. A negative result from a same-day rapid test. For at-home tests, please name and date the test result card, and take a photo of the card to present at time of entry. Please do not attend with any indication of having a fever, sore throat, or flu-like symptoms. A limited number of Covid Rapid tests will be available at the door.

INCIDENT REPORTING: We seek to create a space that is very safe and welcoming. Please reach out to a host ASAP if there are any consent violations, or anyone makes you feel uncomfortable. You can also fill out the incident report form

(*) By purchasing or obtaining a ticket, you are agreeing to Beyond the Rainbow Events Consent & Code of Conduct Guidelines and the venue’s guidelines.

You are also agreeing to Beyond the Rainbow Release of Liability, Expressed Assumption of Risk, Hold Harmless, Indemnification, and Medical Consent Waiver.