Aptos, CA Events | Plura
Oaklandish Hypno Munch
14
ONWARD
4
Queer Poly Karaoke @ The World Famous Turf Club (Hayward)
17
Beyond Small Talk: Speed Relating
20
Improv(e) Your Dating Life
The Chemistry Collective: A poly/ENM Dance Party - Play Edition! 2026 Season Finale!
100+
November House Party - on Every First Friday!
41
Bawdy Storytelling's Cum Again? Stories of Near Misses and Second Chances
97
Art of REPAIR: The Practice of Relational Healing
20
Ravishment: Mastery of Erotic Dominance & Passionate Surrender
11/7 The San Francisco Munch - Hosted by SOJ
33
Foundations Tantra Program 2026
6
Welcome to the SF Kink Scene
44
Diwali: Trance Storytelling & Sound Journey in Oakland
4
Honeycomb
Electro Play from the Bottom
17
Game Night - CNM/Polyamory
11
Tantra Date Night (Part 2)
40
Sacred Sensual Saturday | In Person Tantra Puja
3
Vanilla Play Party - Final Bay Area
53
Bonobo Network Presents Kiss and Tell: A Sexy Second Bass Party
91
Three Ring Circus: A Kinky Circus & Oddities Play Party Play
100+
Unleashed: A Primal Party
77
Freakquency: All Black Halloween Play Party
47
Monthly Weekend Climbing: November
10
OAKLAND Platonic Touch Workshop: November 8th Edition
37
San Francisco Kinky Speed Dating Mixer: Male Dom & Sub Edition
9
BOBA Munch (11/2026)
23
WETWARE Play Party --> moving to November
100+
Smutty Book Club November
5
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